Doctor gets ambushed at a family party for medical advice while holding food, tells an uncle with a non-emergency issue to see a specialist: ‘I should be allowed to eat in peace without being treated as a mobile clinic’

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  • AITA for getting annoyed when my family ambushed me for a medical consult while my hands were full of food?

    Man in a white shirt serves food onto a plate at an indoor buffet.
  • I'm an Emergency Medicine physician. Like many doctors, I constantly get ambushed for medical advice at family events, which I hate.
  • Today was my uncle's 60th birthday party at a buffet. I was walking back to my table. with a full plate of food in
  • People gather around a buffet table with plates and drinks in a bright event space.
  • one hand and a drink in the other when my mom stopped me, saying another
  • uncle wanted a medical consult. I frowned, so she told me to eat first.
  • Right after I finished, I was called over again. Still annoyed by the original setup, I told my mom it
  • wasn't right to ambush me while I was literally holding my food. She scolded me and said I had a "bad attitude."
  • Shortly after, my dad pressed me to go talk to him, so I gave in.
  • My uncle pulled out an ultrasound report showing bilateral 4.8 cm renal c sts and an enlarged pr tate,
  • asking how to manage it. I told him this is completely out of my scope as an ER
  • doctor as I deal with acute and life-threatening emergencies, and that he needs to see a urologist or general surgeon.
  • My parents are upset, claiming I was ride, disrespectful, and unhelpful. I
  • feel like I should be allowed to eat in peace without being treated as a mobile clinic for non-emergent issues.
  • AITA for being visibly annoyed and telling my uncle to see a specialist?
  • TL;DR: Ambushed for a medical consult at a family buffet while carrying a full plate of food. Expressed
  • frustration to my parents, and when I finally spoke to my uncle, his issue was non-
  • emergent and outside my ER specialty, so I referred him to a urologist. Parents say I have a bad attitude. AITA?

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